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FDM024 - Mistress Ava Zhang Interview  

Your Hostess, Mistress Simone sits down with one of New York City's most elusive Dominatrices, Miss Ava Zhang An enigma among fellow Professionals, Miss Ava Zhang , she sits down with Mistress Simone to share some of her secrets, interests and desires. The 2 Mistresses discuss their mutual love of ritual, protocol and sissification. As Miss Ava Zhang states on her site: "The perfect slave is a consummate gentlemen or lady, well-mannered to a fault"

FDM016 - NYC Three - Mistresses DeLuca, Megan McCord & Wynter

Femme Domme Mystique hostess, Mistress Simone of Chicago interviews three of her favorite professional dominatrixes of New York City: Mistress Wynter, Mistress Elena DeLuca and Mistress Megan McCord. This coffee clutch hour romps through the world of professional domination covering how to approach a prodomme, lifestyle vs professional, social media impact, pet peeves, industry pros and cons and more.

Mistress Servalan

This week, Mistress Simone has a chat with Mistress Servalan! One of the world's premiere corporal experts, Mistress Servalan of Australia sits down with her fellow caner  Mistress Simone to discuss the skill and technique of their mutual fetish. Sisterhood among Mistresses is discussed and why it is important. Lots of laughs with these 2 ladies who enjoy similar wit. Come to listen in on two of the best disciplinarians.

FDM023 -Mistress Interview

The first Mistress interview of 2019 is in the bag! Your hostess, Mistress Simone sits down for a chat with one of the most creative BDSM clip producers on the market today : Alice In Bondageland.Alice develops unusual scenarios using pop culture, movies, popular icons and unusual topics. Unlike many clips producers, hers feature realism, laughter and a wide variety of people. These are true kinksters, not paid models. Instead of providing us with a unattainable fantasy based on impossible to meet societal expectations, we are treated to positive role models, good energy and creative play.

And laughter, lets not forget laughter!

FDM015 - Sadie Hawkins

During Domcon last year, Mistress Simone had the wonderful chance to sit down with Mistress Sadie Hawkins of Arizona. These ladies are both very actuve in the USA leather community and share their knowledge and experiences within this interview. Learn some of the challenges that women in general face within the lifestyle community. Mistress Simone broaches the subject of ethnicity with Goddess Sadie Hawkins and how it has effected her journey. The installment of Femme Domme interviews delves deeper than we have before, probing motivations, prejudices and experiences for each Domina. For those who desire to get their feet wet in the leather community, this is a must listen interview.

FDM007 - Club FEM

On this episode ofThe Femme Domme Mystique, Mistress Simone shares some great interviews around Club FEM! ClubFEM is the international organization formed to explore the dynamic of female domination and male submission. Mistress Simone is HeadMistress of the oldest branch outside of the original.

FDM022 Femme Domme Mystique - Rant 1 2019 - Online protocol

Mistress Simone starts off 2019 with a rant suggested by an online encounter one of her collared slave had with an unknown wank Domme via Facebook. Social media presents our lifestyle with unique challenges for engagement with others.While many people tend to hide behind their online personas, those engaged in real time relationships and encounters may have difficulty navigating this field. Translating one's manners and protocol should be the key factor in regards to engaging with unknowns online. Just because they re rude does not mean a slave or Mistress should stoop to their level, and toss out consideration. Boundaries should be maintained as established off keys. Mistress Simone lets her feelings be known about those who approach her owned slaves.

FDM014: Mistress Ariana Chevalier of NYC Rubber Studio

This week Mistress Simone sits with Ariana Chevalier of the famous NYC Rubber Studio. Few fellow prodommes have made it to 20 years. Be a fly on the wall when 2 who havr sit and chat about how things have changed, how submissives have changed and what the internet has done to the industry. This interview seems like 2 old friends sitting on the deck reminiscing of the golden days. We both recall SASEs and when our clients had to use them.

Tammy Jo Eckhart

On this episode of The Femme Domme Mystique, Mistress Simone talks to Tammy Jo Eckhart! Well-known author and lifestyle Mistress living the life with her BDSM household shares her insight.

Sadism Defined

Mistress Simone attempts to enlighten her listeners on sadism and what it could mean within the BDSM context. A difficult concept to pin down or clarify, she takes on the daunting task of distinguishing good vs bad interactions, safety protocol, the inner beast that must be watched and goal of one's sadism. Using common definitions and psychological guidelines, she dispells common misguided concepts of what being a sadist means for those of us within the BDSM world.

This will be the first of a continuing discussion as this topic is a multi-faceted and broad concept. Enjoy the beginning of the sadism series. 

Genisis Domcon Interview

Mistress Simone was lucky enough to corner Mistress Genesis, one of the leading ladies of DomCon, the dominatrix professional industry event held in Los Angeles yearly. Ms Genesis discusses what she enjoys in those her serve her, and what types of play she enjoys. the best section of the interview comes with Genesis sharing her experience coming out to her family, and the self-discovery of her kinky nature. For those who may struggle with these topics, this interview will help one understand you are not alone and all struggle at times with mixing the bdsm and vanilla world.

Domestic Service

On this episode of The Femme Domme Mystique, Mistress Simone talks about domestic service! How a submissive can do it to please their Mistress. Guidelines for both Mistress and slave in connecting correctly on service desires.

FDM020: The Theft of Identity Within Prodomme Industry

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Branding. Prodommes have been engaging in branding ourselves way before it even became a buzz word. Like any good business, marketing and name recognition is paramount. And just like most successful businesses, eventually, someone else tries to copy or piggy back on the original. As many say "Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery". BS! Mistress Simone goes off on those who steal from professional dominas to make themselves either look good or a small profit using our hard work.

Inspired by the recent upsurge of occurrences.


This week, Mistress Simone interviews Cuntress from DomCon! Visiting the US from Australia, this towering, imposing Mistress give a wonderful interview full of laughter and wit. Learn what Mistress Gabrielle values as a female dominant. Where she began and why those who come before are important, especially for a professional domme. A wonderfully fun interview.

Learn more about Mistress Gabrielle on her site


50 Shades of Rant

This week, Mistress Simone brings you an episode of Ma’am’s Rants to “celebrate” the release of 50 Shades of Grey She will tell you what she thinks about this book/film craze, who she thinks it reflects on people who are actually active in the lifestyle, how many copies she stocks in her dungeon, and more. Plus she will recommend some additional books you might want to check out.

FDM019-Community Interview w Shameless Grounds

In these tumultuous times , we all need a safe space in which to express ourselves , esp in areas such as sexuality and gender. Shameless Grounds is just the place to do so in Saint Louis. A community center/ coffee house/meeting place, the owners strive to provide a comfortable environment for all to meet and discuss such issues. Local groups meet there such as the Littles group and the Submissive munch. Plus they have great coffee and baked goods!!!! Mistress Simone sits down with the owners, Andrew and Michelle , to learn more about them and hear their humble beginnings into a daunting business area : food service. Coupled with the goal of a safe space, this was a big undertaking. How did they make it successful? What are their future plans? Also discussed is their ,kink histories,polyamorous structure and how it works for them. Mistress Simone believes that while her podcast focuses on Femme Domme dynamics, we are all in this together and valuable resources and great people are ones that should be shared. Thus is 2018, her podcast interviews may include a wider variety of cast members then other female dominants.

Self-care for Mistresses and Dominants

As a professional and life style Dominatrix who loves life and structure control over her slave stable, Mistress Simone knows first hand what happens when burnout hits. Monitoring the day to day structure of another can make one forget to manage their own. leaving time for self-care is vital to all humans but especially those in high-intensity D/s relationships. Ms. Simone discusses what happens when she feels burnt out, how to recognize it and what to do next.

Pushy Bottoms And What To Do With Them

On this episode of The Femme Domme Mystique, Mistress Simone talks about pushy bottoms! If you want a femme domme in your life, here is what - and what not - to do!

FDM018-The Bondage Mistress visits Chicago Mistress

The famous Bondage Mistress of London comes to Chicago to create havoc with your host, Mistress Simone. In between tying slaves up and ballkicking, these 2 evil sadists find time for a coffee interview. Mistress Simone expresses her dungeon envy which if anyone knows her is hard to do. She delves into the whys and favs of Mistress Miranda. Learn what motivates this Mistress to go for more extreme scenes and restriction.

Luxury of the Internet

The internet- what a wonderful thing. But is it good for our profession and lifestyle? How has the way we interact changed due to it? When Mistress Simone began her journey as a leather Mistress, this tool did not exist. Now it runs everything. Without a web presence, prodommes cannot gain new clients as well as keep in touch with regulars. Dangerous predators can hide behind online profiles on a wide assortment of hook up sites. Even Fetlife has its pitfalls with such. In this episode Mistress Simone discusses how she feels the internet has affected the business and community.

Bitch - Same as Dominatrix?

On this episode of The Femme Domme Mystique, Mistress Simone talks about being a bitch. Is it a requirement of a Femdom? Or does it show a lack of character? How does it tie in and when is it a good attitude to have. Ways to balance yourself out to enable open communication with those that serve you.

FDM017-Femme Domme Mystique Interview series : Alexandra Sadista

2 of Chicago's finest sit down and discuss their journeys up to this point. Mistress Simone interviews Mistress Alexandra Sadista. Learn how this talented domme got started on her career path, some of the interesting adventures she has had along the way and how best to serve her. Mutual medical fetishists, these ladies chat over what some of their favorite types of invasive play are. The femme domme interviews are designed to increase the listener's understanding of how diverse the world of female domination can be.

What is Service?

What does service mean to those partaking of it in a BDSM setting? There are many types of service, not just domestic: Sexual Secretarial Financial Manual Dress Meal

In this episode, Mistress Simone discusses some of these and how femme dommes can incorporate them into their dynamic.

Mistress Simone of Chicago

Meet Mistress Simone, a professional dominatrix, and host of the new podcast, The Femme Domme Mystique! This is a show about the female dominant mystique, lifestyle, and quandaries. Here we will focus on the female dominant dynamic regardless of submissive orientation. All those who identify as female and dominant are welcome to listen, learn and submit topics and questions. Mistress Simone will share the knowledge she has gained in her 25 years as a lifestyle and professional dominatrix. Topics will range from power exchange, sadism, service, pet peeves to gender identity.

Travel Dates

For the near future I will be concentrating on my home cities.
till April 2020


As your Mistress, I strive to enhance our time together by exploring both our inner fetish desires. What fun is it for me if I am not engaging deeply with you while playing? I seek to connect, control and captivate you. My female dominant spirit requires your servitude.


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