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CBT 102: Gaining a further grasp of things

 By Mistress Simone 

Wonderfully malleable naughty bits: the genital area of the male! CBT 102 will discuss how we begin to enhance the sensations once the anatomy, safety and basics have been mastered. What else can we do to elicit those sighs and gasps we love to hear from our males? You have learned about impact, sensation and restraint. Now we will begin to cover:
Topical
Chastity
Deep Impact
Encasement
Electrical
Beginning Edge Play

Keep in mind with cbt, not everything does not need to be painful. In fact the less painful, the better it can be. If the pain level is too intense in a short time period, your CBT session will be much shorter. Restraint and sensation will get you much farther than straight heavy impact. It can also be much more devious. Beyond the basic is where the mindfuck begins.

If you need a refresher on the basic anatomy, please refer to CBT 101. With these new activities, the key thing you should keep in mind is the thinness of the skin on the shaft and ball, especially if bound or stretched out. Flaccid is always easy to work with in regards to safety (however, less fun in my opinion) as the skin remains loose. With an erection, your skin stretches and becomes engorged with blood, making it easier to damage.
So let's get started:

Topical:
This covers any application of a substance to the localized area of the cbt surface. Substances can range from ointments, liquids, creams to gels. The key safety factor you must remember with applying such is "Less is more". Gobs of Ben Gay directly applied to the balls will end your scene quicker than someone yelling fire. And that is precisely what will happen to your male's skin. It will be on fire and could lead to permanent damage. So, start out small and work up. There is a delayed reaction time with most of these, so be patient. If you desire to enhance the feeling, you can wrap the area in plastic wrap or bondage tape to contain the heat.  Some common topical materials are: Ben gay, Icy Hot or any type of menthol ointment, cinnamon oil (which can burn the skin so be careful), tiger balm, peppermint or spearmint oil, wintergreen oil, habanero pepper juice, chili powder or capsaicin ointment. Pretty much anything you can think of that generates a hot or cold feeling can be used. Remember to wear gloves when applying the topical ointment. Also, if you then whip it, flog it or use any other toys on the area while the ointment is on, you will need to thoroughly clean them afterwards of all residue. Otherwise the next time you use them, you will get a not-so-nice surprise.

Keep in mind the urethral opening here. Stay away from it! Anything placed there more than 0.5 within should be sterile as it is a sterile area. The ointment/liquid could seep down into the tube and cause serious burns. It is safer to play with the scrotal area or lower shaft with this activity. Have a cool towel handy to wipe excess off and cool area down if need be. Liquid soap, dishwashing detergent, cold cream or yogurt will help remove the ointment is it becomes too much.

Chastity:
I only want to touch on this matter lightly here as it really is its own fetish. Chastity is not usually done in a scene or play, but more of a commitment of abstinence from your male to you. It can be played with lightly however to enhance the orgasm the male will have when release is finally granted after a cbt session. If you know you will be playing heavily with cbt, have your sub refrain from orgasm a few days prior to the scene. If possible, place him in a cage or belt to enhance the anticipation of the forthcoming torment then release.

Deep Impact:
This refers to activities which do not necessarily bruise the surface area of the cock and balls. Things such as kicking, stomping, trampling, crushing, stretching and stepping on cause deep cbt impact. Also, compression devices such as presses, stretchers and humblers are here. With this type of activity, the same rule applies as with topical: "less is more "to start. Here you are dealing with the muscle tissue, not the skin. Vacuum pumps are also deep impact because they engorge the penile area severely. More on the safety of vacuum pumps later. Ball kicking is a favorite of many female dominants I know. However there is a right way and wrong way. Full, frontal kicking is a no-no. CBT 101 covers the top down kick vs. the top up kick. Overall, the top up is safer. I also enjoy the side kick as it is good place for beginning kickers to start. Here you stand slightly off center and use the side of your foot for the kick. After you have become accustomed to the basics, you can move up to stiletto kicks.

Light pressure is enough to make the male react. The threat of having his balls kicked or crushed is enough of a mindfuck for most men. (Ladies, watch the reactions of those in the room). Never stand full force on bound balls. You will crush them. As with kicking, light pressure slowly increased is enough. Trampling is best done of a flaccid cock lying on the abdomen, away from the balls. If you decide to add weights to any of the cock devices, stay within the safe range of 1-3 lbs. to begin. The male can be worked up to handle much more but 1-3 is a safe starting point. Be careful when apply weights as the device will not only pull the area with it, but will begin to slide itself. If it does slide completely off, damage may result not only to the balls but to the toes.

In regards to vacuum pumps, remember you are engorging the area with blood. Creating this severe pressure can result in burst blood vessels not only externally but internally. Also with repeated and continuous usage there may be less ejaculation fluid. Do research on this before you decide to undertake it regularly. If used in a scene, it can make the penis much more sensitive to any type of touch and orgasm more intense.

Encasement:
Taking basic bondage one step further, total encasement provides two additional things: visual mindfuck of not having the awareness of what is going on to his cock and balls and the sensation of removal from the body. It's like placing a hood or armbinder on your sub. Many materials can be used for this activity. Bondage tape, Duct tape, saran wrap, liquid latex and expanding foam are all fun. One of the fun things about encasement is you may leave it on a lot longer than other cbt bondage. There is less compression of the blood vessels, making it easier for the sub to wear for longer. Keep in mind with some types of encasement such as the foam and plaster, after you have applied it, that's it. You really can not do much else in the area! However with such items as the tape or wrap, impact and teasing are still viable.

Electrical:
The first toy I use in this area in cbt 101 is the violet wand. If your male has become comfortable with the violet wand feeling, enhance it with one of these evil devices: brillo pads, lint traps, aluminum gutter tape or 18 gauge copper wire. The copper wire should be wound around the balls and shaft. Brillo pads and lint traps unroll and then placed over the shaft like a condom. Aluminum gutter tape can be wound around clothespins which are then used as conductors to the area. Do not place this last item on the nipples, cbt only.

Once that has been mastered, you can move onto such lovely devices as the cobra stinger, Eros Tek units, PES toys and TENS units. One of my favorite toys to use on the cb area is the Tens unit. It provides deep muscle torment. Things such as the stinger and electric fly swapper are more surface annoyance. The Tens Unit produces a deep muscle contraction. Best placement I have found is either all pads surrounding the shaft or two on shaft and two on balls. Just a safety note, make sure the gauges are off and turned down before you hook the boy up!

Beginning Edge Play:
Knife play, needles, fire play, mock castration. All these are places to begin experimenting with cbt edge play. CBT 103 will go further into things such as sounds, catheters, suturing, needles and plaster casting. With needles in cbt, the best place to begin learning is the loose skin of the scrotum. Stay away from the shaft and head until you have learned a bit more on how this very delicate area bleeds and reacts to invasive play. Needles on the scrotal area should be pointing into the center of the sac, then capped off with cork to prevent accidental pricking. Do not do needles on a bound sac. It is too risky to hit a ball or artery. It will also bleed much more.

Knife play needs to be used more so as a mind fuck then actual. The blade can be too sharp and cut without the top's knowledge even if extremely careful. So, I suggest using it more as a mock castration threat. Pricking the balls softly with it is effective but remember you may make a hole, especially if balls are bound.

Fire play is a fun threat as well. To start, experiment with wax. Use a low temperature wax even more so than the type you would use on back or ass area. The skin is thinner here ,more likely to blister. This is another area where mindfucks work well. Light cigarettes and incense are excellent threats. Just do not actually touch the skin as you will end up with 2nd degree burns.
Edge play will be covered further in 103.

Basic cbt safety tips:
Cold and numb is a bad thing.
Purple means time to untie.
Most common injury with binding is abrasion burn from pulling too tight and cutting the skin. Always use your hand as a guide for the tie.
Edema or swollen tissue is a good gauge it is time to stop. In itself, it will not cause permanent damage, but should be taken as sign to loosen the restraining device.
Have ice packs on hand to reduce swelling.
To err on the side of safety if I am not familiar with the male, I remove all bindings before ejaculation. Tubes can be damaged if the area is bound and orgasm occurs.
Have safety scissors on hand in case need to cut rope.

One of my favorite sites for all types of penile information: http://penisownershandbook.com

May 2016 by mr. grey
April 2016 by M

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